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We Never Give Up on Our Cats
Shannon, 1982-2001

Shannon, 1982-2001

Photo Credit: © Franny Syufy

To those of us whose bond to our cats is sacred, we do not give up when their behavior is not all we would expect it to be

When a Cat Pees Out of the Box

We do not "rub his nose in it," yell at him, or punish him in other ways. We know that cats are naturally clean by nature, and if all is well, they will use the litter boxes provided for their waste.
  • Vet Visit First Priority
    We first take the cat to our veterinary clinic for a thorough examination, including a urinalysis and other tests, to determine if an FLUTD (Feline Urinary Tract Disorder) caused by Cystitis or a UTI could be the cause. We know that pain during urination can cause cats to avoid the litter box, and that if there is a blockage, it is considered a veterinary emergency.
  • Next: Check Litter Box Cleanliness
    We then make sure that all the litter boxes in the home are scrupulously clean. If not, we clean them, because a "kiss and a promise" simply won't work. No one wants to use a dirty toilet, and cats' sense of smell is far superior to ours.
  • Is Your Cat's Box Avoidance Fear-Based
    If there is an hierarchy issue, another cat may be intimidating this one, making him afraid to use the box. Or, if the box is too close to a noise source (such as in a laundry room), the noise may also keep him away. Litter Box Placement is important.
  • Is Age a Factor?
    Arthritis can make it painful for the cat to get in and out of the box. And sadly, some cats become senile to the point that they forget to use the box. My beloved kitty, Shannon, pictured here became senile in his last year of life.

When Our Cats Fight

We first ask ourselves if there have been any recents disruptive changes in our lives, as cats are creatures of habit and intensely dislike change of any sort. Innocuous things to us, such as moving the furniture, or a weekend guest, can raise havoc with cats. Even worse, a new cat, a long-distance move, or a loud, ongoing home remodel, will result in uproar.

If everything has been calm on the home front, take a look outside. A strange cat within view from a window, or marking the front door with urine, is a challenge to the cats inside. They may very well want to cause serious damage to the outsider, but since he is not available, a cat will savagely turn on the cat who used to be his buddy. It's called redirected aggression, and once you've seen its results, you'll be on the lookout for strays in your yard from that day forward.

When a Cat Scratches Furniture

First, we understand that cats need their claws, both for protection and for mobility. They scratch to help "sharpen" their claws, by removing the transparent sheath that covers each claw. We would never dream of declawing our cat because of illegal scratching. Instead, we provide him with legal scratching opportunities, such as scratching posts, cat towers, and plastic nail caps, such as Soft Claws.

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